He's new at work. He's highly thought of by management and has been a complete gentleman in all your encounters. He asks you out...you accept. Things go so well, you're willing to accept his offer of a second date. He has your phone number but you can't seem to get him to give you his. He always insists on meeting you or picking you up. You have no idea where he really lives. Why? What reason does he give? 1. He hasn't been able to get his phone turned on since he is new in town and has been so busy at his new job. 2. He's a long-time bachelor who's not too proud of his housekeeping skills. He'd rather you didn't see his apartment/house/condo just yet. (Until he can find a reliable maid.) 3. His strict Christian (Jewish, Islamic, Hindu, whatever) upbringing requires that a true gentleman call on a lady.